The Company of Sex Dolls is a Healing Process
Sex dolls not only provide functions for human beings to meet their sexual needs. There is a group of people who not only use dolls as adult products, but are also keen to groom dolls and take them outside for shooting. This small and secret group is called "" baby friend". They never had sex with the dolls, but regarded them as their emotional sustenance and regarded them as their family members. Although the dolls were fake, their companionship was real.
The predecessor of the sex doll is the inflatable doll, which originated from the United States and Japan after it was invented by Hitler during World War II to curb sexually transmitted diseases in the military. In the 1990s, people began to use high-grade medical non-toxic soft silicone or PVC material to make inflatable dolls. In recent years, with the development of technology and the expansion of market space, silicone dolls have been infinitely close to real people. In addition to sexual use, silicone dolls are also a spiritual antidote in the world of many baby friends. Many baby friends say: "Dolls are their emotional sustenance."This baby friend from China met a sex doll when his life was not going well, and embarked on a life path of healing and redemption. So how did the sex doll heal him? The following is the story of this doll friend and sex doll.
1. From sudden heartbeat to sudden death
"If I say that I have never been hurt by girls or had conflicts with them in reality, I actually don't think that beautiful girls' figures, humanoids, paper figures, and virtual characters are so good." One from Chinese baby friends said so. This baby friend from China is a native of Beijing. Compared with many of his peers in puppy love, he has always been vague about the relationship between men and women. At the age of 19, for the first time, he had a different affection for a girl. It was a tall, thin girl with glasses, her skin was a little dark, her mother had died, and her family was not in a good condition. "As for me, after knowing her life experience, I don't know what happened. I feel so pitiful, but it seems to be quite cute, and suddenly there is an idea that I will take care of you." Facing such a girl, he first Once tasted the heart-pounding taste. But before he confessed, the girl had a boyfriend. Later, this baby friend's love and career were not smooth, and his life fell to the bottom.
2. Know and buy sex dolls
When the baby friend stayed at home all day doing nothing and roaming the Internet, he seemed to recall the conversation he had with his classmates when he was young, and he bought the first adult doll in his life. "Physically, it's not too different from silicone, and it's not bad. The body is quite heavy... Later, I said, I should buy a cheap one and try it first. I was very excited at the beginning, and it's hot for two or three days."
After observing for a period of time, he found that the cheap dolls had a strong smell, "a smell of sour water". After a long time, the surface of the baby's hand seems to be chapped, and the slag falls down. "That material is not good, and the stability of that material is too poor." In order to learn more about the doll, the doll friends joined several posts and forums. Among them, many netizens' posts about grooming and dressing up the doll moved his heart. When playing with dolls, doll friends gradually discovered the different meanings of dolls to themselves. "Doll is actually a person who has no temper. Even if you unilaterally output, she will not respond." Helping you treat by serving the baby, referred to as "baby therapy". "You can take care of and dress her up, find something to do, find someone who needs you, and you will feel that it is still meaningful to do these things." In the process of browsing the posts and exchanging ideas, he walked into the baby friend's In the circle, he found that many people do not use the adult function of the doll, but are more keen to dress up the doll like Japanese players, and take the doll to shoot outdoors.
Afterwards, he took out the energy of his previous work to run operations, re-edited each photo, connected it into a story, and named it "A Day with Xiaodie and Uncles". Once the post was released, it quickly spread in the circle, some people admired it, some people envied it, and some people said that this post will definitely "go down in history". Everyone's recognition made this baby friend feel an unprecedented sense of accomplishment and became more and more obsessed with dolls. From then on, there is one more girl in the baby's life: Sakura. He likes to dress her up like a student and put on her school uniform, just like a fourteen-fifteen-year-old junior high school student. In his eyes, Sakura is the opposite sex with the perfect combination of ideal and reality, completely "obeying" himself and completely belonging to him. She grooms and dresses up every day, accompanies her in a daze, and holds her to play games together to make her happy. The emptiness of life is gradually filled by Sakura.
3. There is an untold story behind every sex doll
Some widowed old people dress up the doll as a deceased wife; some couples have no children and keep the doll as their daughter; there are young people who are seriously ill and do not want to drag their girlfriends down, so they choose to let the doll accompany him. "Dolls can't solve the problem of people's loneliness, because it has no interaction. It is possible that the more dolls you have, the more lonely you will be, but what resolves loneliness? It's communication." There are many frustrated people who rekindle their love through sex dolls. The hope of life has finally found what life is loving, opening a new stage of life.
For ordinary people, many of us may think that sex dolls are just sex tools, but they don't know that sex dolls may also be the salvation of many frustrated people. I hope that there will be less discrimination in the future, and everyone can correctly view people with special hobbies.
